In the years I've spent in the bridal business, I've seen and heard alot. Often, a few key topics seem to circulate, perpetrated mainly by internet message boards and how-to wedding books. Education is the key to dispelling many of the common myths you may have heard while you've been planning your wedding.
Please remember that I can only speak for myself, and my own store. Certainly there are others who run their businesses differently.
1. "ALL BRIDAL SALONS DELIBERATELY ORDER YOUR GOWN TOO BIG TO MAKE YOU SPEND BIG MONEY ON ALTERATIONS". This is downright false. In fact, the seamstresses we reccommend are not employed by us, and we gain nothing from them financially. They are referred as a courtesy. At The Silver Lining, we make our best effort to order your gown to fit as closely as possible to minimize alterations. Because no one has a "cookie cutter" body, alterations here and there should be expected and budgeted for.
2. "ALL BRIDAL SALONS TELL YOU THE DRESSES TAKE SEVERAL MONTHS TO COME IN BECAUSE THEY JUST WANT YOUR MONEY." Not true. Depending on the designer, your gown could be delivered in 10 days or upward of six months. A few designers have inventory available, and those gowns can be delivered quickly. Custom couture gowns can take awhile, as well as gowns imported from Europe.
3. "ALL THE DRESSES IN THE BRIDAL SALON WERE GIVEN TO THEM BY THE DESIGNER". If this were true, everyone would own a bridal salon. The truth is, each and every gown, veil, accessory, etc was paid for by the store. Seasonally, inventories can cost in the several hundred thousands.
4. "YOU CAN'T GET AN HONEST OPINION OUT OF YOUR CONSULTANT BECAUSE THEY ARE ON COMMISSION". Some stores operate on commission, ours does not. In fact, very few modern salons operate solely on commission. There have been many, many times where I've honestly thought a $400 dress looked better on one of my brides than a $4000 dress, and I am quick to point it out.
5. "I WENT TO A STORE THAT SAID THEY CAN GET ME *ANY* DRESS, AND AT A DISCOUNT!". This is playing with fire. Stores and internet sites that claim they can get you "any" designer's dress are called trans-shippers. They very often do not have legitimate access to the designer's collection, so they use a "friend" in the business to order it for them. Now what if this "friend" goes out of business, or forgets to place your order? The store/site you bought it from has no recourse whatsoever. They can't ring up the designer and ask about your dress, because they aren't authorized retailers. Your money (and precious months pre-wedding) are gone.
There are many bridal lines that are "exclusive" to certain stores. This means that they have a contract with the designer that the designer will only offer the gowns for sale in their store, within a certain mile radius. If you have any concerns about a store's authority to sell a particular designer's gown, please call the designer directly. It will save you alot of time, hassle, and heartache in the long run!
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
DESSY, AFTER SIX, AND ALFRED SUNG BRIDESMAIDS
Effective 9/15/09, The Silver Lining will cease special orders on any Dessy Group product. Any orders made previously will be honored, and will arrive as scheduled.
The decision was a difficult one for us, because we do love Dessy's gowns. However, we have invested thousands of dollars in sample gowns and retail overhead only to lose sales to unscrupulous internet vendors. Time and time again, brides have approached us with unfixable complaints about late delivery, wrong colors, and wrong sizes that were ordered online. In an effort to quell the problem, we have elected to no longer carry gowns that are discounted online.
If you wish to purchase Dessy gowns, it is highly recommended to purchase them from a local authorized retailer. Go to http://www.dessy.com
Remember, we carry several other bridesmaids designers in hundreds of colors and fabrics. :)
The decision was a difficult one for us, because we do love Dessy's gowns. However, we have invested thousands of dollars in sample gowns and retail overhead only to lose sales to unscrupulous internet vendors. Time and time again, brides have approached us with unfixable complaints about late delivery, wrong colors, and wrong sizes that were ordered online. In an effort to quell the problem, we have elected to no longer carry gowns that are discounted online.
If you wish to purchase Dessy gowns, it is highly recommended to purchase them from a local authorized retailer. Go to http://www.dessy.com
Remember, we carry several other bridesmaids designers in hundreds of colors and fabrics. :)
Sunday, September 20, 2009
How to look smokin' hot on your wedding day!
This entry comes to us courtesy of a fellow store owner, and friend Holly Ward, owner of Belle's Bridal Couture Boutique in Abilene, TX. Thanks Holly!
This little post is dedicated to looking smokin’ hot on your wedding day. And not giving in to the temptation of the frump. (aka NOT looking frumpy on your wedding day). Yeah, I said it. Some brides may be happy wearing a their wedding gown, underpants, deodorant, and that’s it. But most gowns NEED more than that to look their best. I kid you not. You may think it’s just more crap that you have to buy and the bridal shop is just trying to pull one over on you. But, it isn’t.
Mike Ward, at Belle’s Photography has been telling brides not to skip the foundations for years. If a guy is willing to tell you this, then it must be important. Mike’s clients typically pay in excess of $5K for wedding photography, so they want tips on looking their best. This is one of the best tips to look beautiful, polished, and pulled together on your wedding day. You never want to hear someone looking at you and using the word ‘frumpy.’
So here is the skinny on what you need what for and when. There are 4 basic necessities each bride should consider. Your bridal shop should help you with selecting what is correct for you, your figure, and your gown.
Item #1 - The Bustier
This bad boy will hide a multitude of sins. A bustier is a bosom-to-waist control garment, which is usually made of satin. Additional features may include detachable garters, push-up cups, flexible boning, optional shoulder straps, and hook and eye closure.
Why do I need this thing? Control. Simply put, a strapless bra lacks support needed to wear most wedding gowns. If your gown does not have a bustier built into the bodice, then you should consider this thing. Reason 1 - it smooths your torso and streamlines your curves from bust to waist. Reason 2 - it gives you lift. Weather you are a AA cup or a DDD cup, you need support. You may need it for different reasons, but you need it.
Is it really uncomfortable? If you can manage a bra, you can swing a bustier. It offers moderate support through the tummy as well as the bust. Most bustiers have a low back, so that it can be worn with a low back wedding gown. If your gown is constructed of taffeta or another light weight fabric, then you can consider a seamless foam bustier. This bustier is missing the boning (think of it as under wires) that runs through the regular bustiers vertically. The boning gives the bustier more support. The foam bustiers are molded, often have a push up cup, and offer a seamless option. They do the same thing as the traditional bustier - they smooth and support. That’s what you want.
Item #2 - The Petticoat
A petticoat is a type of slip that a woman wears under her gown. It often has layers of ruffles to make the skirt of the gown fuller. Petticoats are something that are skipped by many brides if they did not buy a ballgown. BIG MISTAKE. One of the biggest reasons bride’s look frumpy on their wedding day is due to lack of a petticoat. I know some of you are thinking, I don’t want to wear that. But come on, how often are you going to be a bride and get to wear one? Petticoats are fun. They swish when you move, air can circulate under them. Regular petticoats are lined too so the crinoline isn’t scratching up your legs. So its swishy, fun, airy, and soft.
If you have an A-line gown (its NOT fitted to your body) a petticoat will make your waist look thinner, as well as removing the frump factor. The petticoat holds the skirt in place while you walk. Keeping the hemline wider than your waist creates an optical illusion and makes your waist appear smaller than it is. What girl doesn’t like that? And the layers typically end at your ankle so you don’t need to worry about tripping on it either.
There are many kinds of petticoats. They come in different shapes and sizes. As you may already know, there are a million variations of an A-line skirt. Your bridal consultant can assist you in selecting the proper petticoat. One of the most common specialty shaped petticoats we sell is the mermaid. Its a fitted slip to the knee and then flares out to support the skirt on a mermaid wedding gown.
Item #3 - The Corset
You may have thought that the corset died with chivalry, but they are still alive and kicking. And for good reason. A corset can offer support unmatched by any of its more comfortable counterparts (the merrywidow, bustier, strapless bra, nu bra, and body suits). That is the main reason why the corset is still around.
Now, I have to point out. Most corsets that you will find in stores are lingerie. They are not shaper corsets. A shaper corset does just that - it offers shape. It can pull you into an hourglass figure or as close to it as you want. The shaper corset comes in different lengths. It can extend from your bust to hip, bust to waist, under bust to hip, or under bust to low waist (also called a girdle). The corset material is typically a thick satin or damask, with boning for support, hook and eye front closure, and a lace up back.
There are 2 laces on a shaper corset. A top lace and lower lace. When laced properly, they meet at the waist (or middle). The laces are tightened from the top and the bottom of the corset to keep it from shifting while being tightened. It also gives a better shape and a better fit when laced this way. A shaper corset also has metal grommets on the back. This is so the laces can be pulled tight and can support pressure.
What do corsets do? Obviously they shape. And they shape better than any of their sister garments mentioned earlier in this post. A corset can flatten your stomach, cinch your waist, narrow your hips, and give you a bigger or smaller bust line (depending on how you lace it). It’s wonder underwear! It’s also smokin hot wedding lingerie.
We carry prefab white shaper corsets. We typically have several sizes in stock. Those come with a matching thong and garters. We can also order a custom Old World bridal corset. These have a higher price tag, but are so insanely beautiful, and offer the best support. Custom corsets take about 16 weeks to arrive. So plan accordingly.
Item #4 - Panties, Thongs, and Seamless Control Panties
OK, here are limited definitions in case you’ve been going commando so long you forgot. ;o) Panties are full coverage front and back, thongs (and g-strings) offer front coverage and minimal back coverage, and seamless control panties are something like Shapes or Spanx.
Embarrassing scenario #1 - If you are wearing a white wedding gown, and, let’s say that it’s made out of white chiffon. So you have on no petticoat because you have a flowing skirt. Hmmm. What kind of underpants should you wear? Rosebud panties are so out. Don’t even think about it. People will able to count the rosebuds on your butt as you say your vows. Do NOT be that girl. If you wear a panty, chose a nude color - that means it is solid and close to your skin tone. Why? So no one can see it!
Embarrassing situation number next. You are wearing a clingy silk wedding gown with a built-in bustier and granny panties. They are nude colored, but people can still see them. Do you know why? Silk does not hide ANYTHING, including panty lines. Its time to consider your other options - thong or Spanx? If you can see a slight shadow on your gown when facing the mirror at the waist of your thong, you can see it. And you will have to wear a seamless thong or Spanx.
When do you wear a control seamless panty? When you want no panty line and you want support through your tummy and a little lift to your derriere. Typically you wear this under fabric that is extremely unforgiving and clingy. It smooths, flattens, and lifts.
Comfort & Drawbacks
Let’s just cut to the chase. I know what some of you are thinking. I want to be comfortable. There are different levels of comfort. There is sweatpants on a rainy day with fuzzy socks comfort and there is comfort anticipated to look smokin hot. Sweat pants are NOT smokin hot. So don’t compare apples to rocks - sweatpants comfy is not wedding day comfy. On to the comfort levels and drawbacks of each item.
Out of all this stuff, what is the most uncomfortable? As a woman who has worn all this stuff at one time or another - seamless control panties (like Spanx or Shapes) by far, hands down, are the most hot and uncomfortable. That should bring a sigh of relief since most women have worn these in the form of control top panty hose at some point. Kind of a pain to take on and off. Kind of hot. Kind of sticky. Was it worth it to look hot in your little black dress? Yes. And this was the most uncomfortable out of all of this stuff? Yes. Be encouraged soon-to-be-frumpless brides.
You thought I was gonna say the corset, right? The corset actually isn’t that bad. It’s not like wearing sweats, but it’s not bad. It doesn’t dig in the way a cheap bustier does (or if you have a big chest, the way most bustiers do). It feels more like a tight hug offering support through your torso as long as you don’t lace it too tight. Minor problem, you can’t bend over and fold yourself in 1/2. But you are bride in a big wedding gown, so it’s not like you are going gardening or getting stuffed into a locker before your wedding anyway. Additional perk - its functional bridal lingerie. Oh la la!
Bustiers offer good support for most brides. The lift your bust and trim your waist. Plus size brides may find that they do not offer enough support. You can tell this is happening if your bustier boning bends under the weight of your chest. You can find a better made bustier or look into a corset. Bustiers are about as comfy as a bra with an underwire when it fits correctly. Don’t guess what size you are - ask the consultant. Most women are wearing the wrong bra size anway, so it’s normal if don’t know what size you wear.
Petticoats are comfy imho. They are soft, fluffy, and fun. It’s like having a little portable pillow tied to your butt all night - that makes you look skinny! Make sure its lined, and you’ll be fine. And if you need a custom petticoat, we can do that for you too. We have some customers who order hoop petticoats. That is where the shape is being held by boning rather than layers of fluff. A hoop petticoat is a light and easy way to get the volume of multiple petticoats without the weight.
And how much is all this stuff? The average bride can escape the frumpy funk for around $100. Considering how much you are putting into your wedding, isn’t $100 so worth ensuring you look perfect?
This little post is dedicated to looking smokin’ hot on your wedding day. And not giving in to the temptation of the frump. (aka NOT looking frumpy on your wedding day). Yeah, I said it. Some brides may be happy wearing a their wedding gown, underpants, deodorant, and that’s it. But most gowns NEED more than that to look their best. I kid you not. You may think it’s just more crap that you have to buy and the bridal shop is just trying to pull one over on you. But, it isn’t.
Mike Ward, at Belle’s Photography has been telling brides not to skip the foundations for years. If a guy is willing to tell you this, then it must be important. Mike’s clients typically pay in excess of $5K for wedding photography, so they want tips on looking their best. This is one of the best tips to look beautiful, polished, and pulled together on your wedding day. You never want to hear someone looking at you and using the word ‘frumpy.’
So here is the skinny on what you need what for and when. There are 4 basic necessities each bride should consider. Your bridal shop should help you with selecting what is correct for you, your figure, and your gown.
Item #1 - The Bustier
This bad boy will hide a multitude of sins. A bustier is a bosom-to-waist control garment, which is usually made of satin. Additional features may include detachable garters, push-up cups, flexible boning, optional shoulder straps, and hook and eye closure.
Why do I need this thing? Control. Simply put, a strapless bra lacks support needed to wear most wedding gowns. If your gown does not have a bustier built into the bodice, then you should consider this thing. Reason 1 - it smooths your torso and streamlines your curves from bust to waist. Reason 2 - it gives you lift. Weather you are a AA cup or a DDD cup, you need support. You may need it for different reasons, but you need it.
Is it really uncomfortable? If you can manage a bra, you can swing a bustier. It offers moderate support through the tummy as well as the bust. Most bustiers have a low back, so that it can be worn with a low back wedding gown. If your gown is constructed of taffeta or another light weight fabric, then you can consider a seamless foam bustier. This bustier is missing the boning (think of it as under wires) that runs through the regular bustiers vertically. The boning gives the bustier more support. The foam bustiers are molded, often have a push up cup, and offer a seamless option. They do the same thing as the traditional bustier - they smooth and support. That’s what you want.
Item #2 - The Petticoat
A petticoat is a type of slip that a woman wears under her gown. It often has layers of ruffles to make the skirt of the gown fuller. Petticoats are something that are skipped by many brides if they did not buy a ballgown. BIG MISTAKE. One of the biggest reasons bride’s look frumpy on their wedding day is due to lack of a petticoat. I know some of you are thinking, I don’t want to wear that. But come on, how often are you going to be a bride and get to wear one? Petticoats are fun. They swish when you move, air can circulate under them. Regular petticoats are lined too so the crinoline isn’t scratching up your legs. So its swishy, fun, airy, and soft.
If you have an A-line gown (its NOT fitted to your body) a petticoat will make your waist look thinner, as well as removing the frump factor. The petticoat holds the skirt in place while you walk. Keeping the hemline wider than your waist creates an optical illusion and makes your waist appear smaller than it is. What girl doesn’t like that? And the layers typically end at your ankle so you don’t need to worry about tripping on it either.
There are many kinds of petticoats. They come in different shapes and sizes. As you may already know, there are a million variations of an A-line skirt. Your bridal consultant can assist you in selecting the proper petticoat. One of the most common specialty shaped petticoats we sell is the mermaid. Its a fitted slip to the knee and then flares out to support the skirt on a mermaid wedding gown.
Item #3 - The Corset
You may have thought that the corset died with chivalry, but they are still alive and kicking. And for good reason. A corset can offer support unmatched by any of its more comfortable counterparts (the merrywidow, bustier, strapless bra, nu bra, and body suits). That is the main reason why the corset is still around.
Now, I have to point out. Most corsets that you will find in stores are lingerie. They are not shaper corsets. A shaper corset does just that - it offers shape. It can pull you into an hourglass figure or as close to it as you want. The shaper corset comes in different lengths. It can extend from your bust to hip, bust to waist, under bust to hip, or under bust to low waist (also called a girdle). The corset material is typically a thick satin or damask, with boning for support, hook and eye front closure, and a lace up back.
There are 2 laces on a shaper corset. A top lace and lower lace. When laced properly, they meet at the waist (or middle). The laces are tightened from the top and the bottom of the corset to keep it from shifting while being tightened. It also gives a better shape and a better fit when laced this way. A shaper corset also has metal grommets on the back. This is so the laces can be pulled tight and can support pressure.
What do corsets do? Obviously they shape. And they shape better than any of their sister garments mentioned earlier in this post. A corset can flatten your stomach, cinch your waist, narrow your hips, and give you a bigger or smaller bust line (depending on how you lace it). It’s wonder underwear! It’s also smokin hot wedding lingerie.
We carry prefab white shaper corsets. We typically have several sizes in stock. Those come with a matching thong and garters. We can also order a custom Old World bridal corset. These have a higher price tag, but are so insanely beautiful, and offer the best support. Custom corsets take about 16 weeks to arrive. So plan accordingly.
Item #4 - Panties, Thongs, and Seamless Control Panties
OK, here are limited definitions in case you’ve been going commando so long you forgot. ;o) Panties are full coverage front and back, thongs (and g-strings) offer front coverage and minimal back coverage, and seamless control panties are something like Shapes or Spanx.
Embarrassing scenario #1 - If you are wearing a white wedding gown, and, let’s say that it’s made out of white chiffon. So you have on no petticoat because you have a flowing skirt. Hmmm. What kind of underpants should you wear? Rosebud panties are so out. Don’t even think about it. People will able to count the rosebuds on your butt as you say your vows. Do NOT be that girl. If you wear a panty, chose a nude color - that means it is solid and close to your skin tone. Why? So no one can see it!
Embarrassing situation number next. You are wearing a clingy silk wedding gown with a built-in bustier and granny panties. They are nude colored, but people can still see them. Do you know why? Silk does not hide ANYTHING, including panty lines. Its time to consider your other options - thong or Spanx? If you can see a slight shadow on your gown when facing the mirror at the waist of your thong, you can see it. And you will have to wear a seamless thong or Spanx.
When do you wear a control seamless panty? When you want no panty line and you want support through your tummy and a little lift to your derriere. Typically you wear this under fabric that is extremely unforgiving and clingy. It smooths, flattens, and lifts.
Comfort & Drawbacks
Let’s just cut to the chase. I know what some of you are thinking. I want to be comfortable. There are different levels of comfort. There is sweatpants on a rainy day with fuzzy socks comfort and there is comfort anticipated to look smokin hot. Sweat pants are NOT smokin hot. So don’t compare apples to rocks - sweatpants comfy is not wedding day comfy. On to the comfort levels and drawbacks of each item.
Out of all this stuff, what is the most uncomfortable? As a woman who has worn all this stuff at one time or another - seamless control panties (like Spanx or Shapes) by far, hands down, are the most hot and uncomfortable. That should bring a sigh of relief since most women have worn these in the form of control top panty hose at some point. Kind of a pain to take on and off. Kind of hot. Kind of sticky. Was it worth it to look hot in your little black dress? Yes. And this was the most uncomfortable out of all of this stuff? Yes. Be encouraged soon-to-be-frumpless brides.
You thought I was gonna say the corset, right? The corset actually isn’t that bad. It’s not like wearing sweats, but it’s not bad. It doesn’t dig in the way a cheap bustier does (or if you have a big chest, the way most bustiers do). It feels more like a tight hug offering support through your torso as long as you don’t lace it too tight. Minor problem, you can’t bend over and fold yourself in 1/2. But you are bride in a big wedding gown, so it’s not like you are going gardening or getting stuffed into a locker before your wedding anyway. Additional perk - its functional bridal lingerie. Oh la la!
Bustiers offer good support for most brides. The lift your bust and trim your waist. Plus size brides may find that they do not offer enough support. You can tell this is happening if your bustier boning bends under the weight of your chest. You can find a better made bustier or look into a corset. Bustiers are about as comfy as a bra with an underwire when it fits correctly. Don’t guess what size you are - ask the consultant. Most women are wearing the wrong bra size anway, so it’s normal if don’t know what size you wear.
Petticoats are comfy imho. They are soft, fluffy, and fun. It’s like having a little portable pillow tied to your butt all night - that makes you look skinny! Make sure its lined, and you’ll be fine. And if you need a custom petticoat, we can do that for you too. We have some customers who order hoop petticoats. That is where the shape is being held by boning rather than layers of fluff. A hoop petticoat is a light and easy way to get the volume of multiple petticoats without the weight.
And how much is all this stuff? The average bride can escape the frumpy funk for around $100. Considering how much you are putting into your wedding, isn’t $100 so worth ensuring you look perfect?
Friday, September 18, 2009
Practical Tips for Choosing the Perfect Gown
1. START EARLY! Bridal gowns can take 3-7 months to arrive, depending on the designer. Add in the time to alter and prepare your gown, and some "padding" time to put yourself at ease. It can take some time to find the "right" dress, so be sure to give yourself enough time to shop, decide, and order. Nothing can add to your wedding stress level more than wondering if your gown will be in on time.
2. TRY ON DIFFERENT STYLES. It's easy to get stuck on a certain "look", but the reality is that certain styles aren't for everyone. Be sure to try on at least a few gowns that are the opposite of what you thought you wanted, because very often the "one" ends up being something you never thought you would choose.
3. LEAVE THE PEANUT GALLERY AT HOME. A few trusted friends and mom, maybe? Too many opinions often leave a bride confused and frustrated. Remember, it is your gown. It's your wedding. You need to be happy with your gown, and confident in your choice. Get what makes you feel beautiful.
4. CONSIDER YOUR VENUE. Be sure to consider the when's and where's of your wedding. I think we can all agree that a 20lb ballgown with a cathedral train might be a bit out of place on the beach in Hawaii, and a backless, lowcut slipdress might be frowned upon in an Orthodox church ceremony. If you are marrying in a house of worship, make sure you know the rules ahead of time in regard to style, embellishments, modesty, and color.
5. DON'T WORRY ABOUT "CLASSIC" VS "TRENDY". The truth is, everything will look "dated" in time. As fashion rotates, styles come and go. Who would have thought leggings would have made a comeback?! If you have your eye on a style you consider "trendy", and you love it, then go for it! If it suits your personality, and makes you feel like a rockstar, then you've got the right dress.
6. ALTERATIONS. Rarely do gowns fit right off the rack, especially when you are under 5'8. A good consultant will show you how the gown will look once it's the right size and the right length. Proportion is key to a good fit!
7. UNDERGARMENTS. To get the best idea of how the gowns will look, be sure to wear or request the proper undergarments while trying on. We carry a full range of bustiers and control slips. Spanx are also popular with alot of our brides.
8. CAMERA PHONES ARE NOT YOUR FRIEND. I know it sounds counterintuitive, but non-professional photos taken in a bridal salon can set you up for disaster. Human nature tells us to be overly critical of ourselves in photos, especially in the wrong lighting, wearing a gown in the wrong size. Professionals know just how to make you shine! That gorgeous dress that you absolutely love might be cast aside if you see a terrible camera phone pic of it, so my advice is just don't do it. :) Remember how you feel in the gown, because that is most important.
9. BEWARE OF THE DISCONTINUATION MONSTER. Bridal designers can be fickle people, always designing something new and beautiful.....the downside of that being that they have to let go of certain designs to make room for the new ones. We are generally given just short amount of time between the notification and the actual discontinuation. If you have found "the one", it's best to order when you find it.
10. BUY LOCAL. If there's a problem, question, or concern, your local full service retailer is here and ready to help. Not so if you purchase your gown online. Time and time again, I've had brides come into our store in tears, with a gown in a box (if they're lucky, sometimes there's NO dress). Every single one of them was an internet bride. There is absolutely no way to insure that you will get what you think you are getting if you order it online. Many times, I've seen fakes passed off as originals, dirty used sample gowns sold as new, or wrong sizes/colors/lengths. The reality is that the problems were avoidable.
2. TRY ON DIFFERENT STYLES. It's easy to get stuck on a certain "look", but the reality is that certain styles aren't for everyone. Be sure to try on at least a few gowns that are the opposite of what you thought you wanted, because very often the "one" ends up being something you never thought you would choose.
3. LEAVE THE PEANUT GALLERY AT HOME. A few trusted friends and mom, maybe? Too many opinions often leave a bride confused and frustrated. Remember, it is your gown. It's your wedding. You need to be happy with your gown, and confident in your choice. Get what makes you feel beautiful.
4. CONSIDER YOUR VENUE. Be sure to consider the when's and where's of your wedding. I think we can all agree that a 20lb ballgown with a cathedral train might be a bit out of place on the beach in Hawaii, and a backless, lowcut slipdress might be frowned upon in an Orthodox church ceremony. If you are marrying in a house of worship, make sure you know the rules ahead of time in regard to style, embellishments, modesty, and color.
5. DON'T WORRY ABOUT "CLASSIC" VS "TRENDY". The truth is, everything will look "dated" in time. As fashion rotates, styles come and go. Who would have thought leggings would have made a comeback?! If you have your eye on a style you consider "trendy", and you love it, then go for it! If it suits your personality, and makes you feel like a rockstar, then you've got the right dress.
6. ALTERATIONS. Rarely do gowns fit right off the rack, especially when you are under 5'8. A good consultant will show you how the gown will look once it's the right size and the right length. Proportion is key to a good fit!
7. UNDERGARMENTS. To get the best idea of how the gowns will look, be sure to wear or request the proper undergarments while trying on. We carry a full range of bustiers and control slips. Spanx are also popular with alot of our brides.
8. CAMERA PHONES ARE NOT YOUR FRIEND. I know it sounds counterintuitive, but non-professional photos taken in a bridal salon can set you up for disaster. Human nature tells us to be overly critical of ourselves in photos, especially in the wrong lighting, wearing a gown in the wrong size. Professionals know just how to make you shine! That gorgeous dress that you absolutely love might be cast aside if you see a terrible camera phone pic of it, so my advice is just don't do it. :) Remember how you feel in the gown, because that is most important.
9. BEWARE OF THE DISCONTINUATION MONSTER. Bridal designers can be fickle people, always designing something new and beautiful.....the downside of that being that they have to let go of certain designs to make room for the new ones. We are generally given just short amount of time between the notification and the actual discontinuation. If you have found "the one", it's best to order when you find it.
10. BUY LOCAL. If there's a problem, question, or concern, your local full service retailer is here and ready to help. Not so if you purchase your gown online. Time and time again, I've had brides come into our store in tears, with a gown in a box (if they're lucky, sometimes there's NO dress). Every single one of them was an internet bride. There is absolutely no way to insure that you will get what you think you are getting if you order it online. Many times, I've seen fakes passed off as originals, dirty used sample gowns sold as new, or wrong sizes/colors/lengths. The reality is that the problems were avoidable.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
CAROLYNE SATUER "TIMELESS" TRUNK SHOW
Carolyne Satuer Timeless Collection, available in Oregon exclusively at The Silver Lining.....
The gowns have arrived, and they are breathtaking! Every style is represented, from simple to extravagant. Beautiful beading, rich couture embroideries, and luscious fabrics are the hallmarks of this grand collection. Come see for yourself, and experience the perfect fit of Carolyne's gowns. They are truly outstanding. She's also sent us her collection of matching veils and handbags!
The collection is sampled in plus sizes 16-30 (available by special order in sizes 0-12 as well). A special selection of plus size slimming undergarments, bustiers, and a new collection of wide-width shoes have also been brought in especially for this event!
*Special discounts apply to purchases made during the show, September 9th-16th. Not applicable on previous purchases.
The gowns have arrived, and they are breathtaking! Every style is represented, from simple to extravagant. Beautiful beading, rich couture embroideries, and luscious fabrics are the hallmarks of this grand collection. Come see for yourself, and experience the perfect fit of Carolyne's gowns. They are truly outstanding. She's also sent us her collection of matching veils and handbags!
The collection is sampled in plus sizes 16-30 (available by special order in sizes 0-12 as well). A special selection of plus size slimming undergarments, bustiers, and a new collection of wide-width shoes have also been brought in especially for this event!
*Special discounts apply to purchases made during the show, September 9th-16th. Not applicable on previous purchases.
Thursday, September 3, 2009
2009 SAMPLE CLOSEOUT SEPT 3RD-9TH
It's that time of year again! We are closing out all of our remaining 2009 Sample gowns to make room for the 2010 gowns that are coming in. This means big savings for you!
All of the gowns are brand new and in perfect condition, and best yet, selected gowns are 30%-50% off! We have them in sizes 6-32 in stock for immediate purchase. This discount is limited to stock on hand, so hurry in for the best selection.
All designers included!
All of the gowns are brand new and in perfect condition, and best yet, selected gowns are 30%-50% off! We have them in sizes 6-32 in stock for immediate purchase. This discount is limited to stock on hand, so hurry in for the best selection.
All designers included!
IMPORTANT CHANGE TO CAROLYNE SATUER TRUNK SHOW
The date of the Carolyne Satuer trunk show has been changed to September 9th-16th, 2009. Unfortunately, the gowns were not sent as scheduled from the store that had them before us :( The good news is that the designer is sending us a brand-new sample set that has never been tried on. This means you can even purchase the gowns off the rack during the show! Additionally, they are sending a sneak preview of gowns from their Black Label Collection.
For those of you that were waiting for this trunk show to make your purchase at a discounted price, we will honor the trunk show discount this weekend, as well as the weekend of the rescheduled show.
We apologize for any inconvenience this date change may have caused. We hope to see you at the rescheduled show September 9th-16th!
For those of you that were waiting for this trunk show to make your purchase at a discounted price, we will honor the trunk show discount this weekend, as well as the weekend of the rescheduled show.
We apologize for any inconvenience this date change may have caused. We hope to see you at the rescheduled show September 9th-16th!
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